Its been years since I wrote on my blog, but her birthday is Tuesday, and its Advent. This year has been a particularly difficult one for me as I lost my best friend, my champion, my guide, my heart....my Mother, Minister Carolyn Burt. As I journeyed alongside her through her cancer fight these past few years, and as I now continue this life without her, I have navigated other painful circumstances simultaneously. I have had to face the aloneness of grief, the pain of harmful people who capitalize on other's vulnerabilities, the confusion about life as accomplishments are juxtaposed with pain, etc.... One can imagine how I struggled when asked to write a devotional article for this Advent Season. Yet, as I lean into the biblical text (Isaiah 12), I am reminded that God is in the midst....even as we struggle. God is not merely a bridge over troubled water but a lifeboat in trouble water. God is present and actively involved in your circumstances as well as mine. I hope this devotional article keeps us encourage with such a reminder. You can find it here 👉 https://shorturl.at/mHy0M.
"Platonic friendship works best between members of the opposite sex when at least one of them is gay..." That's what my married male friend told me a few years ago after one of my "platonic" male friends started acting crazy. Maybe there is some truth in the statement, though? Historically, I have maintained that not only were co-ed platonic friendships possible, but were actually normative but I've changed my mind. Pheromones is a helluva drug. Maybe its possible, but not so much. Sure, there are times when two friends are low key feeling each other and end up together like the movie Brown Sugar (rare unicorn moments) . However, it is more likely that two friends have some weird love story playing out based on mutual attraction and basic smashing (where one person doesn't want much else) like in the video Half Crazy by Musiq, where one person is lying about just being friends like in "Just a Friend" by Biz Markie, or where two peo...
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